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Tuesday, 22 February 2011
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Looks like it runs in the family
I guess the worship-leader traits can be passed down the family tree.
Driving with the girls the other day, we were singing along with Fee's "glory to God forever". I got a couple worship-leading tips from watching how Libby coerced Carina into participating.Don't be surprised if you see me trying these out at Grace on Sunday. My favorite was when she yelled, "DO IT!!"
I'm definitely bringing that one out soon.
Oh yeah.
Friday, 11 February 2011
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ready next time
On my drive home I saw something that disturbed me. Three things, actually- The first was a man holding a "need help" sign, standing on the corner, in the bitter cold.

The second was the fact that I seriously had NO MONEY with me. And so when the light turned green, there wasn't much to do but keep on driving. But in my gut, that just sat wrong with me. Chances are, as you're reading this, you're saying, "I've been there". Because the third thing that disturbed me was the instant onslaught of questions in my mind. And if you've been there, you've probably wrestled, like I did, with the soul-searching that goes something like this:
Was I truly saddened that I didn't have anything to give? Would I have helped if I could have, or was I relieved that I couldn't, because "I can't" sounds so much better than "I won't"?
My opportunity had passed, this time. But what about next time? I couldn't do anything about this time, but I can do something so I'm ready next time. So last night I grabbed some cash and put it in my wallet. This is cash with a sole purpose, not to be spent on anything except its intended use, which is that the next time I see someone holding a sign, I'm ready to help. This takes "I can't" out of the equation.
I beg and beg sometimes for God to "speak to me". But in His Word He has spoken very clearly about my responsibility to care for the poor and needy, not just around the world but also in my community. And when I've neglected to prepare for obedience, it's like I've planned for disobedience.
So if you're up to a challenge today, then I challenge you to set aside some cash in your wallet and plan for obedience. That way you're ready when "next time" comes around.
The last time I helped a guy out, I put a couple bags of groceries in his right hand and two $5's in his left. He didn't say much, but before he turned around he said, "God bless you". And I thought to myself, "He will." Not because I was a good person or had done a good deed, but because of a boatload of God's promises practically jumping off the pages of almost every book of the Bible. Here's just one of them.
"A generous man will prosper. He who refreshes others will himself be refreshed". Proverbs 11:25
Thursday, 10 February 2011
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no hype needed
This morning Verizon released the iPhone 4g, and in 9-degree weather hundreds of people in many cities gathered before dawn, outside, under the big red check-mark, just to be among the first to pay top-dollar to get their hands on it. Apple didn't need to do a bunch of hyped-up advertising. They told us when it would become available. People wanted it. They wanted it bad enough to brave the elements. Bad enough to pay the price.
Contrast that with a couple things I saw recently on different shopping trips.

I'm guessing gum is on sale this week. Sheesh.

Seriously? "Was: $199"? It's on "clearance" for one two-hundredth off? What kind of a clearance is THIS?

If you look really closely in the lower right corner of the sign, it says, "& up". For real. The average price of items in the store was about 6 bucks. I wanted to go in, find the owner, and either shake his hand for his outstanding audacity, or just punch him.

Brother, I'll tell you something right now. A Snuggie is a Snuggie. You can make it camouflage, you can put a picture of a guy fishing on the box, but that doesn't change the fact that it's a Snuggie, and if I catch you even thinking about buying it, you deserve a junior-high-style wedgie.
With some products, people have to work SO HARD to get you to look, and hopefully buy. And other times, the product doesn't even have to be on sale- it just has to be available, and folks will line up to get their hands on it. As a "minister of the gospel", which is not only my official title, but the proof of God's great mercy on my life (2 Corinthians 4:1), it's important for me to remember that my Savior Jesus never put His offer "on sale", never dumbed it down, dressed it up, or begged people to pay attention. Instead, He basically said:
It will cost you everything. It's a narrow road, a fine line, a hard life to live. And it is worth every sacrifice you make, every persecution you endure, every price you pay.
Just something to remember today.
Wednesday, 09 February 2011
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little things
Last night the girls' "Little Ninjas" martial arts class was cancelled, so we figured it was a perfect time to take them to see MegaMind at the dollar theater- only problem, we were one day late and it was no longer showing. So we had a night at home, which most of the time would be a welcome relief from the craziness, but with the snowed-out, shut-in week we just had, another night at home didn't sound quite as exciting.
I thought for just a minute about what I could do to just make the night "different", and came up with the dumbest, littlest idea, and thought, "it just might work".
So before dinner we had the girls get out all their dress-up hats and accessories, and we went around- each person picked a hat and an accessory that another person had to wear during dinnertime. As stupid as that little idea was, it totally changed the atmosphere from "another night at home" to "we've never done THIS before!".
Yes, Jordan is wearing a pink hat. I dare you to make fun of him and see what happens. (Hint: he's recently learned to spit.) Anyway, it set the stage for a fun night, and reminded me that it doesn't have to be something big, brilliant, or expensive- even a little rudder can change the course of a ship, and even a little idea can change the atmosphere around you.
Later.
Wednesday, 03 November 2010
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When we were preparing for marriage 12 years ago, the only official verbal advice my dad gave me was simply to honor God with our money. It's something that he had learned throughout his life- that as we honor God, he will honor us. (1 Sam. 2:30). Marcie and I have been faithful to that in our marriage from day one, and it's something I really get excited about. Tithing is a big deal to me- it's something I can engage God in to see His faithfulness, to put proof to my faith, and to participate in His Kingdom. Here are some great thoughts from a Crosswalk Finance feed I subscribe to:Is Tithing for the New Testament Believer?Cortni Marrazzo
A few weeks ago I wrote an article called "Why it's Important to Keep Tithing in Tough Economic Times" and, quite frankly, I was surprised by the many follow up comments from Christians who don't believe that tithing is for today. Many expressed the belief that tithing was only done in the Old Testament and thus it shouldn't be a part of a believer's life. Their comments made me wonder: Whether tithing is restricted to the Old Testament or not, is the practice of tithing such a bad thing for today's believer?Matter of the Heart
First, let's look at the purpose of the tithe. The main principle behind tithing and giving is the fact that what we do with our money shows where our heart is. Matthew 6:21 says "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." When we are able to give 10% or more of our income instead of keeping that money for ourselves, it shows that our heart isn't tied to our money and that we love God more than our money.
The Bible mentions money over 800 times and of all of Jesus' parables, more than half of them talked about money. Why? Because that is where so many people get tripped up! When we are able to release at least 10% of our income back to God, our money doesn't have as tight of a hold on us because we realize that God is in control of our finances. We remember that everything we have has been given to us by Him. Even though most of us probably work for the money we make each month, even God has his hand there -- He has given us the ability to do our jobs. Many who grasp what God has truly given them seem to agree that 10% doesn't even feel like enough!
Mandatory
Many readers who responsed took issue with idea of tithing being "mandatory" or "required" -- as if it is something that keeps believers in bondage. But do God's standards really keep us in bondage? Just like God tells us to keep sex within marriage, to love one another and to seek first His kingdom, tithing is a blessing to our lives and something that will help better our lives (as well as help the lives of others). We are not saved by works, thus failing to tithe will not necessarily send you to hell, but doing so will help improve your life and strengthen your relationship with God. I personally don't believe that God will curse us if we don't tithe, but I do believe He will help us escape the curse that is already in the world if we do. I also understand that there may be some church leaders who try to guilt and coerce people into giving, but studies show there are plenty of church leaders honoring God in this area -- the majority of them want to share God's best with the people they love and have been tasked to lead.
Old Testament vs. New Testament
Whether the tithe is only for Old Testament or if it is also included in the New Testament is probably the most debated issue. The scripture most frequently referenced regarding the tithe is indeed in the Old Testament (Malachi 3:10-12), but the tithe is also referenced in the New Testament. In Matthew 23:23, Jesus talks to the Pharisees, condemning them for tithing to the penny but neglecting the more important issues of justice, mercy and faith. He then goes on to tell them that they should in fact tithe, but that they shouldn't neglect the more important things. Jesus recognized the importance of keeping the tithe and we should, too.
There are many practices in the Old Testament that don't make sense to us today, yet many of these ancient ways carry over to the New Testament law of grace as part of Christ's promise to not abolish the law, but to fulfill it (Matthew 5:17). For instance we no longer sacrifice animals but as believers we are called to offer ourselves up as a living sacrifice (Rom 12:1). Men no longer are required to be circumcised, but we all have a circumcision of the heart through the Holy Spirit (Rom 2:29). Most of us don't have grain and produce to bring to the storehouse, but we do have incomes that we can bring the first tenth of into the church. In other words, just because something is written in the Old Testament doesn't mean it lacks application to us today in some way or another. One Crosswalk.com member, Zoe4Ever, left a comment on my previous article regarding this principle that I found insightful:
When I think of Christians asking themselves whether "tithing" is commanded in the Bible, is an Old Testament or New Testament teaching, I wonder how many of these Christians "send back" the many scriptural blessings God has given His people in the Old Testament. How many people when they are blessed and given hope through the mention of God's works, words etc. through the Old Testament Scriptures say 'I don't receive this or that blessing or confirmation because it's in the Old Testament'?"
While it is true that we are no longer under the old law, that we are under grace, we must not forget the purpose of grace: to help us live for God and do the things He wants us to do. Romans 8:4 tells us that Jesus came that the righteous requirement of the law might be fully met in us, not so that we could altogether dismiss it. And Romans 3:21-31 talks about how we have righteousness through faith and not through following the law, but verse 31 adds "Do we, then, nullify the law by this faith? Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law." God's grace gives us the power and ability to tithe!
The Number 10
Most of us are aware that we as Christians are to give, but many people get hung up on the 10% part of the tithe. The fact is that God knows we can not all give an equal amount because we all have different resources, so He gave a percentage ensuring it would equal out.
"Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction of a penny. Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything--all she had to live on." Mark 12:41-44
Jesus understood that even though this widow gave a small amount compared to the others, her heart was more giving because she gave a larger percentage of what she had than all the others. This verse is also interesting because this widow gave all she had to live on. There are many people today who say they can't afford to tithe but this woman realized she couldn't afford not to.
God knows we are naturally inclined to be selfish and will want to keep our money. So while, yes, we should give cheerfully, sometimes we need to take the step and actually give regardless of our internal feelings. The act of giving allows God to change our hearts so that ultimately we end up doing so cheerfully. Many of us, if we let our natural minds decide how much to give, would likely opt for a lot less than 10%. Having a standard keeps us accountable.
Trusting the Church So what if you don't take issue with the concept of giving or even the concept of giving 10%? What if you, like many of the commentors, take issue with those you hand your money over to: the Church. Those who express this concern reveal two potential problems that need to be addressed:
1. This individual's trust isn't in God (and the church He's placed them in). Or
2. This individual is attending an untrustworthy church and should consider finding a new one.
The truth is, church leaders are responsible for using church money in a responsible way - they have more accountability for that than we do. And as mentioned previously, most of them do a pretty good job of this. Still, it's worth bearing in mind that our accountability as believers is simply to give and trust that God will take care of the rest. Hopefully you are in a church where you can trust your leaders to do what is right. If you are unable to find such a church, then it would be beneficial to work on your trust in God, asking Him to help you trust the leaders He has placed you under (or pray to help you find a solution if there is a genuine problem of corruption present). But just remember, you're responsible for what you give and for your heart, and the church leaders are responsible for how to use it.
In closing, I'd like to point out that the percentage you ultimately give is between you and God, however there are many who do give 10% and want to offer encouragement to others to do the same. Think about it: If some individuals are willing to give 10% of their income (or more) to their church -- the place that feeds and teaches them -- and if some individuals are experiencing the blessings of giving away income to care for the needy and want to encourage others to experience the same blessings they've been experiencing - is that such a bad thing?
Cortni Marrazzo currently resides in Spokane, Washington with her husband Jason. She and her husband successfully paid off over $11,000 worth of debt in their first year of marriage and she desires to help others reach their financial potential. Cortni has an Associate's Degree in Biblical Discipleship from Dominion College and is currently pursuing her passion for writing while running her own home-based business, Essential Excellence. Contact her at Cortni@essentialexcellence.com or view some more of her financial articles here.

